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This too shall pass, unless it’s autism

Platitudes that make normal people feel better about there problems often just don’t apply to parenting a child with autism.  #1 on that list is “This too shall pass.”  Um, not really.  I guess this is technically true since all things eventually pass.  Maybe it should be “This too shall pass, when you’re dead” although that doesn’t exactly give one the warm and fuzzy feeling of the original. Tweet This Post

The Autism Retort

The Autism Retort (Drudge style) has been relaunched.  The Autism Retort blog / blog roll site will continue to function here.  Please bookmark and pass along the new site. Tweet This Post

Disposition > Circumstance

I am determined to be cheerful and happy in whatever situation I may find myself. For I have learned that the greater part of our misery or unhappiness is determined not by our circumstance but by our disposition. - Martha Washington Tweet This Post

Living in the present

I recently wrote about the need to find a way to stay positive for yourself and for your child with autism.  I think the main difficulty in achieving this goal consistently for some people is the ups and downs inherent in autism.  You stay positive, things are going good, then BAM something happens to remind you of the realities of autism.  It’s easy to stay positive in the good times.  It’s the bad that require you to dig deep for strength.

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Staying Positive

Yes, I love my child.  Yes, she has autism.  Yes, some days SUCK.  Staying positive in the face of adversity seems to be a learned trait.  The ability to do so also seems to come and go.  In my case, it’s been gone of late.  How do you stay positive in the face of such a daunting never-ending 24/7 challenge?  I wish I knew.

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Autism is like a magnifying glass on your life …

If you have a child with autism, you’re probably already aware of this concept whether you know it or not.  Autism magnifies your problems.  If you have money problems, most can expect them to get worse.  If you have problems in your marriage, they will be harder to ignore.  If you have addictions, you’ll be more tempted to feed them.

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